They Use Sex As A Distraction

[Pangit]

I am with Mike S here. Thats why I was surprised enough to start this thread.

My partner is young, and we have a really great sex life. 

 

I haven't even considered she might have ulterior motives other than she enjoys sex.

 

So what an eye opener this is, I am watching now, next post coital cigarette break for me has her getting ready to go out I will feel terribly used.

 

actually I can't remember anytime a woman has used sex as a means to get her way with me .... guess I'm just unlucky ..... :mocking: :hystery: :hystery:

 

:cheersty:

[Dave Hounddriver]

Sometimes the sex is a very long planned and well thought out distraction.  Some ladies (one I am very close to who shall remain nameless so she does not argue back) will get you so addicted to her charms for years until they finally admit that they believe Philippines is a "sh&thole" (her word) and she can't wait for the day she can move away.  I am being used  :hystery:   She plans to give me unlimited, gratuitous, loving and erotic sex for many years so that one day I will take her to another country, or when I die she can use whatever assets I leave her to get the heckoutofhere.  :999:

[Jack Peterson]

I wonder what we would say if we found out that our Ladies were discussing something like this while we were out on the Piss, ( or just in the Other Room)

Are we that Mistrusting of our Ladies? maybe I say, Maybe we actually believe what we are writing on this Subject ( Which I will not add things for fear of getting a Beating (Certainly wont be a Laying)  She just is not into talking about the "S" word in Public or close Quarters. Nor do I think she would be too happy me doing it either and of Course she reads these Topics.  :Mad:123 or  :3_8_14[1]: for sure for me

 

When things like this get to a degree of Questions the big "SECRET" saying comes out but you guy 's carry on, I will do a re-run on Florida :thumbsup:  

 

Jack :)

[Dave Hounddriver]

She just is not into talking about the "S" word in Public or close Quarters.

 

Different personalities, JP.  "Y" talks about anything to anybody and gets a laugh out of shocking people.  She would have no problem with anything I mention here, but she may argue and then, after that I gotta  :-kiss:  again.

[Jack Peterson]

 

She just is not into talking about the "S" word in Public or close Quarters.

 

Different personalities, JP.  "Y" talks about anything to anybody and gets a laugh out of shocking people.  She would have no problem with anything I mention here, but she may argue and then, after that I gotta  :-kiss:  again.

 

 

 

 

 

:hystery: If you can Cope that's good :thumbsup:  For us, This I think, is an Age/ Maturity and Stability thing as well, Each to our own of course but for me, I try for the Quiet life, I can get into enough Trouble in many other ways  :1 (103):

Good luck to all that can master this. Maybe I just got a real Conservative Wife and I have gone that way. 

[Jake]

Scheming, scamming, distraction or attraction.........it's all good to me!  It keeps my joints well lubricated.....he, he.

[WordsandMusic]

Thank you sex and sorry sex are by far the most prevalent sex there is in a relationship past the one year mark. I love you sex and I'm horn....sex are powerful but tend to run there course more quickly and are not sustained in the relationship generally, though they do pop up unexpectedly from time to time.

Now if your talking about cover my tracks sex, well that's a whole new ball game. If your Filipina loves your old butt and would never leave you, ( assets) being the motivator. But the old boy friend gets the job done in other areas, he is descret because he gets the love and a share of the money, then I would say you might get a lot of cover up sex.

Now everything I have said transends culture and nationality. All this has been going on every since Eve ate the apple and tried to convince Adam it's all cool. Probably tried to give him some Honey to calm him down. So Filipinas didn't invent various forms of gratuity through sex, they just perfected it.

Now if you run out of your magic pills and there is a long dry spell you only have yourself to blame, after all these young woman are only human. The sad part is that woman are at there sexual prime at 30 to 35, while us men peak at 18 to 25. Doesn't seem far does it?

If you don't believe those numbers look it up!

If you have a younger woman or one in the prime age group, please don't forget, women need an emotional connection in order to be at there best physically. If you are not connected emotionally to her, by trying to walk in her shoes from time to time, maybe cry at some old Filippino movie with her, even if you don't understand a single word. Show a little patients when she doesn't understand what the hell your talking about. Don't knock her culture every time something doesn't seem right to you.

Then you might be getting cover up sex!

Remember, you don't talk her language very well, language is the most powerful tool of a relationship. If you don't speak her language then you better find other ways to speak the language of love. Even lust relies on language. Her old boy friend already has a working connection, he speaks her language and her memoris are powerful of that relationship. It just common sense, all of it. Money will buy you a lot of things, including a country, but it will not buy you love, money only buys companionship!

Willie Nelson said it best, To all the girls I loved before, who traveled in and out my door. He went on to sing Maybe I didn't love you, quite as often as I should have, and maybe I didn't treat you, quite as good as I should have. He went on to sing....If you had not fallen, then I wouldn't have found you, Angel flying to close to the ground.

We're no Angels but I can tell you, many a Filipina has patched us up and hung around trying to keep our fever down and our spirits up!

[Dave Hounddriver]

:th_thbestpost:

 

Well said!

[Pangit]

WordsandMusic (from the movie?) loved the post.

 

But...how is a guy supposed to know what kind of sex he is getting?

 

I mean, other than 'great' ofcourse :)

Edited January 18, 2016 by Pangit

[Hey Steve]

Whether it's inspiration, motivation, or perspiration as I see it..the thought always comes to my mind afterwards. You can take the girl out of the province, but you can't take the province out of the girl-but that's just me. :tiphat: