Why is it not considered rude to read over your shoulder?

[Jake]

25 minutes ago, Gerald Glatt said:

you're on the left?

Actually, my middle deserves some public knowledge but it might create a laughing storm.....he, he.  

Edited March 31, 2017 by Jake

[Jack Peterson]

 Last week I had the biggest problem in many years where I blew a fuse over being Controlled.  It has got better but it will not last, Control freaks (this is how I felt she was getting) just do NOT know they are in fact trying to control, If we (as in men normally) don't nip this then we condone something that becomes stifling and is not good in any relationship.

 

Jack

 

Morning All 

[bigpearl]

Interesting topic, I have experienced this with some others I have had relationships with but never my wife of 22 odd years and never with my current better half, trust? Comfortable in the relationship or perhaps not really interested unless it is shared and relevant.

I see this all the time with kids and young adults here, curiosity? Yep they want to see what you are doing and as soon as they see a screen full words they walk away, playing a game different story. Perfectly acceptable it seems here but the height of rudeness in western norms unless invited.

Cheers, Steve.

[frosty (chris)]

10 hours ago, Snowy79 said:

I admire your patience. Mine also questions everything I'm doing and who I'm talking to. Everything I do she doesn't ask why I'm doing it she asks who did I meet? I go to the mall or the gym and it's the first thing she asks. Not what did I buy or was it a good work out? If I get a text she asks if it's a girl? I just tell her I met loads of women and girls text me on my secret phone so don't worry. She's slowly getting the message Especially when I told her I hadn't thought about meeting other girls but thanks for the idea. 

Mine was the same but has mellowed over the years, now only checks my phone once a day .

[Jollygoodfellow]

6 hours ago, frosty (chris) said:

Mine was the same but has mellowed over the years, now only checks my phone once a day .

Little did I realize when sending text messages while sitting in my computer chair that someone behind was reading them. Sometimes she could be on the other side of the room facing the other way and still can tell me what I wrote. A few weeks ago she was sitting next to my phone when I went to take a shower, I turned on the water, pulled curtain across but stepped out of the bathroom to find my phone in her hand trying to unlock it, ah caught you I said, no was just trying to see the time,lol.

Even today she can recite a message I wrote to a female friend months ago. 

[Jack Peterson]

4 minutes ago, Jollygoodfellow said:

ah caught you I said, no was just trying to see the time,lol.

Talk about Tampo's if we were to ask the same questions of them 

[jpbago]

18 hours ago, Dave Hounddriver said:

I find it rude.

Yes, it is rude. It might be a lack of trust or jealousy. Maybe she is doing something that she should not be doing so she thinks that you are too.

[Gerald Glatt]

On 3/31/2017 at 7:34 PM, Jake said:

Actually, my middle deserves some public knowledge but it might create a laughing storm.....he, he.  

So dressing right?

[sonjack2847]

On 4/1/2017 at 4:38 PM, Jack Peterson said:

Talk about Tampo's if we were to ask the same questions of them 

Don`t ask that question if you want a quiet life.The fallout after would go on for weeks well until payday anyway.

 

[Steve GCC]

Have had gf's do it before and even the now wife...........

I just did the same to them continuously, whose that, whats that, who you chatting to, whos that liked your post etc..........they soon get the idea and wind there neck in I found