Notright Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 So I've been in the Philippines since May (this time) and there's been plenty of guys that wanted a relationship with me but it was clear they were just looking for a sugar daddy so I move. I want to know for those of you who are happily settled down how long before you found (or were found) by the right person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Hounddriver Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 4 minutes ago, Notright said: there's been plenty of guys that wanted a relationship with me but it was clear they were just looking for a sugar daddy so I move. Unless this is a typo, I see that you are looking for a man - man relationship. That leads us to the reason many of us come here: The filipinas seem to like foreigners as they feel that the male filipinos are spoiled brats (just my interpretation of what many filipinas have said). I have noticed in many filipino families that the boys are indeed spoiled while the girls do all the chores and take on all the responsibilities. They grow up that way. So it does not surprise me that there are plenty of gay guys looking for a sugar daddy. I wish you luck in your quest. 4 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Forum Support Old55 Posted November 27, 2017 Forum Support Posted November 27, 2017 Try meeting guys through Filipinos you see on a regular basis? Perhaps a waitress or shop person you deal with could know of a nice guy. Many Filipinos enjoy being match makers simply say you’re having a hard time meeting a nice guy? Maybe they know someone? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevewool Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 It's taken me 3 marriage's and 30 years to find the right one , hope that helps you chose wisely. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowy79 Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 I'm slowly learning it's all about compromise. Someone has to win the lottery but sometimes getting 5 balls out of six is OK also. I think I'll never find someone who ticks all my boxes but there'splenty out there that tick enough. The more you try the more you learn. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bows00 Posted November 27, 2017 Posted November 27, 2017 I heard your chances get better if the girl (boy?) has less contact with other expats. I'm going to try hanging outside of major cities. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
canadamale Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 (edited) for me here in the Philippines, the second times the charm. She is actually pouring a orange juice now. OOOPS she seems to have poured only one for herself. I will show her, I will walk to 7-11 for coffee. Magandang umaga my fellow expat forum members. Edited November 28, 2017 by canadamale 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Peterson Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 9 hours ago, bows00 said: I heard your chances get better if the girl (boy?) has less contact with other expats. You may have a better chance of hanging on to them rather than Finding them But 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Queenie O. Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 9 hours ago, Snowy79 said: I'm slowly learning it's all about compromise. Someone has to win the lottery but sometimes getting 5 balls out of six is OK also. I think I'll never find someone who ticks all my boxes but there'splenty out there that tick enough. The more you try the more you learn. I agree Snowy--compromise is needed no matter where you might live. Do you mean the more you try to compromise the more you learn or the more girlfriends you might have over time?! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hk blues Posted November 28, 2017 Posted November 28, 2017 The question reminds me of the "How long is a piece of string" scenario. There are soooo many variables that I doubt there is any correlation between time and success. Not the least of which is if you are, as the OP seems to suggest, looking for a male partner. Anyhow, to answer the question, i guess it took me 47 years 2 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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