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palu

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  1. I have never heard that foreigners need to register with the barangay captain. Where did this come from? Is it new?
  2. If not customs that opened your boxes then it would have to have been an employee of the shipping company. Would you share the name of the shipping company you used?
  3. Just finished my second week of retirement living in the Philippines and already have food cravings. My big one is shellfish. Is it something to be avoided? I am well aware that the waters around the Philippines are used as dumping grounds. Thoughts?
  4. Thanks guys for all of the good advice. I have things to think over......and no Dave, her name is not Jinky or even Stinky
  5. I am throwing this up for discussion. I have been talking to a filipina for over three months. Started twice a day and then she broke off with me after 2 months. Two weeks later she contacts me again and we have been back at it since. She stated that I was too jealous first time.Since we got back together I have been sending her small amounts of money. She also knows that I am coming to see her end of February.. I am beginning to feel uneasy in that she still has her profile up in the dating site where we met and that she continues to check it at least daily.Should I ask her to disable it or wait for her to do so? I am beginning to get bad feelings here.
  6. Never had sex with her! Judge dismissed it because she did not have a lawyer (could not afford one). If she had done anything at all to show she was willing to contribute to the marriage I would not have filed. Anything, wash one of my shirts when she washed her cloths, fixed a meal, anything. She did NOTHING but demand green card and demand school which I had promised her Palu, In post #40 you said, "I know from first hand how high her sex drive is..." Which sounds like you already had sex. "wash one of my shirts when she washed her cloths, fixed a meal, anything" Wow that's very strange behavior. Are you sure she doesn't have mental problems? Was talking about other woman. If wife was as highly sexed would have hung around for at least 2 months :hystery:
  7. Never had sex with her! Judge dismissed it because she did not have a lawyer (could not afford one). If she had done anything at all to show she was willing to contribute to the marriage I would not have filed. Anything, wash one of my shirts when she washed her cloths, fixed a meal, anything. She did NOTHING but demand green card and demand school which I had promised her
  8. The reason why I asked is because I've had nothing but horrible experiences with online dating services. I planed a move to the Philippines in several years and looking for encouragement that local girls are not like their online sisters.
  9. Are the woman online different than their non dating site sisters? I wonder if moving to the Philippines I will find a different type of female.
  10. To correct any thoughts that her boyfriend cheated, nope. According to her, she did something which he could not forgive. I never dared to ask but I am guessing infidelity. According to her again, she spent 7 years trying to get him back without success. I know from first hand how high her sex drive is :) and knowing he is an overseas worker adds up. My biggest concern was always how would I react to her cheating on me. Well, now I don't have to worry about that. Noticed last night that she has her profile back up on the dating website from which I met her. I guess that is that
  11. I am surprised that the divorce is such a big deal considering how many Filipinos have started multiple families without worry about an annulment, Maybe the double standard at play. Still, she is gone. I wish her well. I did love her madly. I sincerely doubt I will ever get her reasons for ending our relationship. I hope I do but doubt it..
  12. Isn't an annulment done by the Church? And they need money to do it? How much? And WHY? And if the Annulment is the big issue - make sure you don't marry a Catholic (hard in the Philippines I know). Not only the church. Many state divorce laws have provisions for annulments.
  13. I looked at every alternative that I could think of, even Guam but the residency requirements are way too long for a contested divorce.Boy, don't I fell screwed
  14. South Carolina, USA. After one month of her in the country (less actually), I saw she had no desire for marriage to me either than my wallet, so I filed for an annulment based on non consummation of the marriage. I was led to believe it was a sure thing by my attorney. Well, in court before a female judge, both me and my wife stated that we wanted the divorce but she stated to cry and act out about the alimony I offered (of course). The judge then dismissed my petition but granted her no alimony In the court's decree, I have to wait another year. God knows the alimony when my wife starts crying and acting out..
  15. Mthersgate, answer to first question she is a bank clerk working 8 til 5 weekdays. While this is important to her, her bread and butter, she is not really 100% happy with it but wished to continue after marriage (another + for her). And yes, she wants to get married and we talked about it. Does she have any reason to mistrust me? Maybe but maybe only using that as an excuse. I have not successfully completed my divorce from my previous Filipina wife. She knows I have no feelings there (other than contempt) do not know where she is living and have tried to divorce here several months ago with it being thrown out of court due to my wife's actions. I have to wait a year to file again. But as I explained it to her, I would not be able to move to the Philippines for 2 years and that I would be unencumbered by that time. She has emotional things to work out, her unreturned .feelings for the father of her child. She has taken real steps in that direction by moving away from his family a year and a half ago. He is an overseas worker and yes, considerably younger than her. She said they broke up because of something she did (I do not know what ) and he moved on with his life 7 years ago. I believe this. She has stated to me that she does not want to be my "mistress" and that she could lose here job by living with a married man.I explained the situation to her and said she would never be the other woman. She stated the stigma of being an unmarried mother was bad enough.Who knows what is in her mind? It has been driving me to insanity trying to figure it out. I do love her that much
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