Getting Involved With A Fillipina

[stevewool]

if you had your life again would you have been invovled with your love one and if you could would it have been sooner rather then later or just not at all, myself i would have rather it had been sooner but cant change that, would you recommend your friends or anyone getting involve,this person came to me asking questions about he may be intrested in this person, but what we all have to go through its not for everyone and i would hate for him to get involved and then later on just to dump her, hes that sort of person if its not going his way in his relationships with the english ladies so can you imagine trying to make contact and seeing someone from the phils, any suggestions to tell him

[sonjack2847]

if you had your life again would you have been invovled with your love one and if you could would it have been sooner rather then later or just not at all, myself i would have rather it had been sooner but cant change that, would you recommend your friends or anyone getting involve,this person came to me asking questions about he may be intrested in this person, but what we all have to go through its not for everyone and i would hate for him to get involved and then later on just to dump her, hes that sort of person if its not going his way in his relationships with the english ladies so can you imagine trying to make contact and seeing someone from the phils, any suggestions to tell him

Yes tell him to stick with the English ladies.

[Old55]

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[brock]

Tell him nothing, let him figure it out for himself

[i am bob]

If the person he is interested in is someone I knew also? I would let him know that I was being honest with him and that, with his record of walking away on previous women, I did not want to be involved. I would not want to lose either friendship should he walk away again. If he can't understand or can't accept that then either his too immature to be with a woman or he wasn't your friend to start with.

[stevewool]

funny aint it the more you look into your own life and how life is going for yourself, i cant imagine any of my friends new and old i could recommend to my sort of life, its not because they are bad people, most of us have to go through hoops and jump so high to get where we want to be so to me we are a different bunch,

[Jack Peterson]

:unsure: I think Steve, what you have here, is an each to his own, throughout all the topics here, you will find we have so many different stories to tell,

so many of us have the ups and downs and yet seem, to come through it. But your friend, may not find walking away from a relationship here in the PI, as easy, as it sounds, he would like. We all know how tight a bond the family is here Brothers, Cousins and the like, may not take too lightly of the situation.

For me, I would leave things alone and as he seems, hell bent on conquest, rather than relationship, best he learns the Hard way. Of course this is my opinion only, I have recently severed a friendship through a similar issue.

If your friend has a long track record of use and dump, he is looking in the wrong place, to continue. IMHO.

Life with a Filapina is hard enough, you need to commit totally any thing less is a path to failure.

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