Internet Dating. Which Sites Are Legit?

[NYCDaHype]

I'll be moving to the philippines next week etc. Would like to know if you know any legit sites to pick up flipina girls etc. Even though I do have a girl I would like to know regardless.

[i am bob]

There are no "Pick Up" sites - this would be considered "Human Trafficking" and thus are illegal.  

 

There are sites where you can meet women and become friends / pen pals...  You can take it from there.

 

I have to admit...  It sounds a lot like you are looking more for a "sexpat" site - we are an EXPAT site and do not condone actions or discussions that may be construed as detrimental or against the laws of the Philippines.

[samatm]

The malls are legit dating sites  where you see a lot of crusty old "pooreigners "  hangin' about coffee and donut shops ogling the merchandise. .       Is that what you mean?     My wife sometimes says when she sees the old farts up to no good. ,  "oh i see what you,re up to on your trips into town running errands. emm hmmm.

[NYCDaHype]

There are no "Pick Up" sites - this would be considered "Human Trafficking" and thus are illegal.  

 

There are sites where you can meet women and become friends / pen pals...  You can take it from there.

 

I have to admit...  It sounds a lot like you are looking more for a "sexpat" site - we are an EXPAT site and do not condone actions or discussions that may be construed as detrimental or against the laws of the Philippines.

Thanks, When I meant PickUp I didnt mean no sex traffic or any illegal things.. PickUp around here(NYC) means Dating, looking for girls to date. My Fault if it seemed like it tho and I can maybe see why you might have thought that but in no way did i mean any of that lol. Anyways thanks for responding..

[Call me bubba]

PickUp around here(NYC) means

strongly suggest that you start learning the "slang" here as some "slangs" have TOTALLY different meaning,

what seems to be respectful in HARLEM would or could get you HURT in LA, ..

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just because they can speak ENGLISH doesnt mean that they FULLY UNDERSTAND

yes your new here..

BUT WATCH THOSE WORDS, and since you appear to be under 40,

watch yourself and dont get carried away, 

if she says NO and the body is saying YES, it means NO>> . dont get intoxicated in public ..

 I could carry on.. but its been covered elsewhere in the FORUM,,

 

#2. your coming here to meet/see your GF and seek another girl to date,

i cant offer any advice except. just dont get her pissed off. or angry,

by you doing that and your GF finds out, it just reinforces the STEREO-TYPICAL american male, 

 

I will leave my posting at this.. NO FURTHER comment  

[bootleultras]

Did you say you were moving here with your girl or coming over to meet your girl?

Im assuming shes Filipina, firstly a bit of advice, i dont know how long you guys have been together but in my experience Filipinas in a relationship are very loving and will bend over backwards to care and support you, appreciate this as I find it rarely happens in the western world with our own women :) the next point you may want to think about before coming here with her, also assuming she has relatives here; Pinays are also the jealous type, especially after displaying so much love and affection for you......jealousy can send them in all sorts of directions and without wanting to scare you just check out some of the recent posts in the safety and security section which may or may not (jury is open on alot of cases) highlight the plight of alot of expats with wives & multiple girlfriends....... & god help you if the Bolo comes out!!

I dont know if youve been over here before but maybe have a good think about if its right to move here permanently at the moment or just have a holiday to test the water, so to speak. Its better being safe than sorry in the end.

Last point, there would be no need for a dating site anyway, once your here there will be girls falling over your feet, left, right and centre at any given opportunity, bars, malls etc....believe me thats the case even if youre not looking or interested in them.

Overall just be careful and have a good think about what you really want, if you already have a beautiful, caring Filipina there should be no need to look elsewhere, theyll look after you for life.........in the end you are your own man so you do what needs to be done but always be ready for that long, long flight home should you be caught with your pants down!! :lol: :cheersty:

[CebuJoe]

I'll be moving to the philippines next week etc. Would like to know if you know any legit sites to pick up flipina girls etc. Even though I do have a girl I would like to know regardless.

Try InternationalCupid.  It's what I use, and while it does have girls that scam (looking for 'travel expenses' to be paid), and short-time girls, it also has legitimate girls who want to date/marry.

CJ

[Tukaram (Tim)]

i had good luck with dateinasia.com. some are looking for a real boyfriend and some "for fun only". be honest wirh them and most will play it straight with you .

[Mike S]

I had the best luck with the old FilipinaHeart (where I met my asawa) ..... I believe it is now FilipinaCupid and seems to have changed a bit so I can't really recommend it .... the FilipinaCupid now has a place for the girls measurements which I find questionable where as the old FilipinaHeart didn't ...... someone also said they now have a girl in a hot leather outfit on the main page which to me doesn't add to the wholesomeness of the Filipina but then to each his own ...... :mocking: ........ and I believe it has now been taken over by a big syndicate as they have a whole bunch of Cupid sites now .... same protocol applies you just have to be more careful ..... :thumbsup: :cheersty:

[boring]

I met my gf a year ago on DIA. I met others too and all were nice girls. Just keep your eyes open for any red flags.