Forum Support Old55 Posted May 18, 2015 Forum Support Posted May 18, 2015 It seems many Filipinas are insecure and have trust issues with an Expat BF or husband. Is your wife or GF jealous and suspicious or accepting and trusting? :unsure: When in Philippines my wife trusts me for the most part but I am not allowed to stay out after dark and must quickly answer the cell phone (I call it my leash) if called. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mogo51 Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 I have no suchissues nor would I put up with them 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Peterson Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 When in Philippines my wife trusts me for the most part but I am not allowed to stay out after dark and must quickly answer the cell phone (I call it my leash) if called. I can see where you are Heading (or coming from :no:) But do you not think this is a little paranoid Old ( or at least bordering on it. :) I spoke to Azon just a while ago about this and she said Honey, you can go where you want but in the Barangay or town after dark at night, I just want to know you are safe. Sound reasonable? JP :tiphat: 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Dave Hounddriver Posted May 18, 2015 Popular Post Posted May 18, 2015 It seems many Filipinas are insecure and have trust issues with an Expat BF Trust is built up over time. It a girl trusts you too fast and too easy I start to wonder what she is waiting to do when you walk out the door. If she is too paranoid about you walking out the door then she may be the wrong one for you or she may just need coaching as to what is acceptable wariness vs what is overly possessive jealousy. Best of luck finding that happy medium and be careful about allowing her to be overly possessive as she will learn nothing about trust if you let her suffocate you all the time. 7 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 (edited) It seems many Filipinas are insecure and have trust issues with an Expat BF or husband. Is your wife or GF jealous and suspicious or accepting and trusting? :unsure: Not suprising, because it's common with "extra wife" in the Filipin culture. Plus many of the foreigners are sexpats NOT wanting a long time relation, but some FOOL they want, so many Filipinas are frustrated. When in Philippines my wife trusts me for the most part but I am not allowed to stay out after dark and must quickly answer the cell phone (I call it my leash) if called. You mean she trust you, you just need to be at home with her ? :) Edited May 18, 2015 by Thomas 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gratefuled Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 She seems to be a bit insecure. Do you stare at other women? Do you flirt with waitresses or salesladies? Do you give her any reason not to trust you? We all know there are a lot of lovely Filipinas everywhere. With the hot humid weather, many wear very little clothing. Short shorts, short skirts, all exposing nice legs. A warm blooded male would find it hard not to sneak a peek. I've noticed them and I am sure my wife has noticed them too. I'm also sure she has noticed if I took a second look or a long first look. No way pal, when I'm with her, I look straight ahead, as if I had blinders on. Plenty of time to look when I'm alone. By the way, that's all I do, look, not stare and I never flirt. My wife is confident of our relationship so there is no petty jealousy with her. I will not go so far as to describe her but she's a "keeper". I'm confident of her love and affection as she is of mine. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MacBubba Posted May 18, 2015 Posted May 18, 2015 She is very trusting. As I am of her. We are free to have lunch with whomever we want. Dinner and drinks is a different matter - we like being with each other almost to the exclusion of everyone else, except family and close friends. And, we're both allowed to look and comment. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Julia Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Some people may develop jealousy even when their relationship is great and they are very happy with their partner. Their jealousy and their possessiveness is a side effect of their desire not to lose something that is very special and very precious to them. And the more precious their partner is to them, the more carefully people guard him / her by being jealous. That concern and fear of loss of someone very rare and special leads people to overprotecting it. Talk to your partner honestly and openly about your feelings and the steps you are taking to correct this. It is best also that you do it in a loving way. The only way for a woman to stop being jealous is when you have given him the assurance of your love. Most women tend to be insecure, and all we need to hear from time to time is the assurance that we are always loved and being adored by our special man. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gratefuled Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 JEALOUSY is an emotion brought on by insecurity. If you love your mate, give her the self confidence she needs and desereves. If you truly love her there is no need to make her jealous. If you yourself have self confidence, there is no need to show that you are still desireable to the opposite sex. By the way, I'm not referring to anyone in particular. Just generally speaking. My opinion, again. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
calasiaobound Posted May 19, 2015 Posted May 19, 2015 Jealousy was an issue with her in the beginning. Now it seems to have tapered off and she's maturing in that area. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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