stevewool Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 When we knew we wanted to be together me and Ems , that was it we married and the rest is history, but on the trips back to the Phils Ems was always asked when is she going to have babies, It was down to me to explain to the family that i married Emma to be with Emma to share my life with, If children did happen well that would be fine but they are not in our plans , just Emma is 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrettGC Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 Interesting I told my asawa the first time we corresponded that I had a vasectomy and couldn't have any kids .... she said that was OK she didn't mind .... and she has never mentioned it in over 9 years ..... so I guess I'm safe .... :mocking: I also placed it in my FilipinaHeart Bio and I had tons of replies so I'm not sure it matters to some ..... now for a fact I don't know how many didn't reply because if it but then one of my choices was for Filipinas between the ages of 28 and under 40 with no children ..... maybe that made a difference ..... :thumbsup: :cheersty: It's funny, I mainly correspond with women that have kids in the hope that they don't want any more. Knowing me though, I'll fall in love again with a woman that wants more and have to move on again. Oh well, the search is fun! 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bootleultras Posted November 11, 2015 Posted November 11, 2015 The attraction of a mixed baby is a huge pull for a lot of Pinays, as Dave said there is plenty out there already and once shacked up with a foreigner, the baby follows not long after. Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tukaram (Tim) Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 Really? Even with a vasectomy? ha ha, yeah I told my wife if she wants a kid she better find another boyfriend :tiphat: 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Hounddriver Posted November 12, 2015 Author Posted November 12, 2015 Really? Even with a vasectomy? We just attended the christening of such a baby. Apparently invitro gets around that somehow. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jack Peterson Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 Daughter cam home from School last evening in a Brilliant Mood, Good Grades, a Merit on Research. Well done said Both of us ( Mum & me) So at Dinner we were discussing this Topic and I said to TM what do you think about Babies :hystery: Why is Mum Pregnant ? No I said just asking, Oh No babies yet for me for a long time, we have a Girl in Grade 12 I think, she is having one & now all her grades are for Nothing and she wont Graduate but Dad, I don't really want a baby, it may turn out like Me. :mocking: "Out of Mouths" of babes comes to Mind Jack :thumbsup: 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Negrito Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 Really? Even with a vasectomy? We just attended the christening of such a baby. Apparently invitro gets around that somehow. But invitro is intentional and a delicate procedure. As I understand through simple intercourse vasectomies are 99.9% sure. Like trying to get an ice cube through a straw in Antarctica outside in a blizzard. 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tukaram (Tim) Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 Really? Even with a vasectomy? We just attended the christening of such a baby. Apparently invitro gets around that somehow. But invitro is intentional and a delicate procedure. As I understand through simple intercourse vasectomies are 99.9% sure. Like trying to get an ice cube through a straw in Antarctica outside in a blizzard. Man, I got snipped and still use condoms ha ha Have not calculated the odds ...got to be astronomical :tiphat: 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dave Hounddriver Posted November 12, 2015 Author Posted November 12, 2015 (edited) But invitro is intentional Now you are getting it. :hystery: When it comes to young filipinas with foreign spouses, almost all the pregnancies are intentional. The only question is how much willpower the man has to keep saying No. It will often come down to going along with her desire to get pregnant in exchange for getting along in the relationship. I speculate that the unfulfilled desire to get pregnant is at the root of many (most?) marriage difficulties here. Edited November 12, 2015 by Dave Hounddriver 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stevewool Posted November 12, 2015 Posted November 12, 2015 (edited) Emma's only worry she tells me is the being alone and having no one to look after her once she becomes old and by herself,that's why many have children hoping they will look after you when the time comes Edited November 12, 2015 by stevewool 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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