Dangers of Ayala

[Domino22]

I got smiles in the store when I was there. But not by any young women. Went to a few malls but never got the good vibe. I am old and border line the old fat ugly guy so I keep my hopes low that this would happen to me. 

[sonjack2847]

I wouldn`t worry about young women giving you attention.The time to worry is when a rooster gives you a lot of attention which is happening to me  outside of my house.I think he must be gay.I have showed him the box from paxo stuffing but that has not deterred him in his attention for me.

[Nephi]

55 minutes ago, Domino22 said:

I got smiles in the store when I was there. But not by any young women. Went to a few malls but never got the good vibe. I am old and border line the old fat ugly guy so I keep my hopes low that this would happen to me. 

Well, if you were single, I'd suggest you come up to Angeles City and go to the SM mall. That's a whole different ballgame! But even where you are the problem is that you most likely look married and as if your wife is just 10 feet away.. Besides, you are married aren't you? Remember, looking at the menu is a waste of time if-----...

[robert k]

45 minutes ago, Nephi said:

Well, if you were single, I'd suggest you come up to Angeles City and go to the SM mall. That's a whole different ballgame! But even where you are the problem is that you most likely look married and as if your wife is just 10 feet away.. Besides, you are married aren't you? Remember, looking at the menu is a waste of time if-----...

But a pleasant waste of time none the less!

[Nephi]

7 minutes ago, robert k said:

But a pleasant waste of time none the less!

Could be. But married or not, it's best to avoid even the appearance of wrongdoing. A lot safer that way too!

Edited October 12, 2016 by Nephi

[JJReyes]

On 10/11/2016 at 6:25 AM, afathertobe said:

I have a suspicion older gents get approached more than us young guys. I do get a lot of looks as well though. 

Filipinas are familiar with the mantra, "Matanda, Mayaman, Madaling Mamamatay." The rough translation is, "Old. Rich and Soon to Die." They hope to inherit your wealth and enjoy life after you are gone.

Younger foreigners are known as, "Good Time Joes." The girls stare while trying to determine if you are the type willing to spend money on a gf. 

Don't be naive. This is a business relationship. A similar thing happens in the West where girls are attracted to the type of car you drive rather than more personal equipment. Go for it Sugar Daddy!

Edited October 12, 2016 by JJReyes

[Snowy79]

On 10/11/2016 at 5:25 AM, afathertobe said:

I have a suspicion older gents get approached more than us young guys. I do get a lot of looks as well though. 

I've noticed that a few times. Even in most Malls you see older ex pats walking around with pretty girls and the younger guys walking around with their male friends.

According to my friends wife who is also pretty and richer than her older husband it's a perception the women have about younger ex pats. They are under the impression most just like a bit of fun, beers with their mates then they're out of the country where as the older guys have allegedly had their fun and are more responsible and attentive to their partners. I'll let her believe that lol.

[robert k]

I watched a younger Philippine vlogger's video where he said it was disgusting seeing a younger filipina with an older western husband and others agreed with him. I asked them if they were willing to marry the woman and accept her child as their own and support both of them as long as you are alive? They said no....but they would Gerr Gerr her anytime she likes and as often as she likes. I then asked if they were going to Gerr Gerr other women? They said of course. 

All I could say to that was wow, imagine giving all that up for something like security?

Another younger Philippines vlogger said he thought that way until he himself got married, now he says he's changed his mind and it doesn't bother him.

I think the situation of the filipina with an older foreigner husband isn't the problem at all. I think the younger guys aren't getting any Gerr Gerr and they are jealous? How dare that old guy take an attractive young woman who the young guy could have had great Gerr Gerr with off the market? The reality is that the young guy wasn't getting Gerr Gerr anyway or he wouldn't have had time to be jealous? Just an observation.

[Jack Peterson]

32 minutes ago, robert k said:

How dare that old guy take an attractive young woman who the young guy could have had great Gerr Gerr with off the market?

 It's all about Money 

[Gator]

1 hour ago, robert k said:

I think the situation of the filipina with an older foreigner husband isn't the problem at all. I think the younger guys aren't getting any Gerr Gerr and they are jealous? How dare that old guy take an attractive young woman who the young guy could have had great Gerr Gerr with off the market? The reality is that the young guy wasn't getting Gerr Gerr anyway or he wouldn't have had time to be jealous? Just an observation.

I don't know, but how would you explain all the unwed teenage mothers? Someone must be getting some Gerr Gerr; and there aren't that many expats to account for the exorbitant birth rate (which keeps the church happy though, lol).