New member living in Philippines

[Johnkalbo]

19 hours ago, Snowy79 said:

Welcome John. 

Thanks mate any one who wants some of my memory's dealing with the time I spent just ask. In my view there are three types of guy who go to the Philippines 1 to find a decent wife someone who has not been through the mill two many times and got spoiled by the way of life I can go into details  but mainly has not got a pinoy boyfreind but says she loves you only to get you to be mr ATM seen a lot of that ,2 the guy who just wants fun no problem there on holiday why not. 3 you go live there get a nice girl live together and everything is ok but the guy gets restless probably had the girl from cherry 🍒 then starts going back to the bar gets other girls the partner finds out this is where things can go very wrong if you make a Filipino loos face it can turn very ugly better to brake up without a third party one guy on 6th street had his head removed from his body by a pinoy over this sort of thing a daddy in a bar drive by shooting  but hay ho it's not all like that get a girl who really loves you and you cannot go wrong . Cheers 

[hk blues]

13 hours ago, Johnkalbo said:

Thanks mate any one who wants some of my memory's dealing with the time I spent just ask. In my view there are three types of guy who go to the Philippines 1 to find a decent wife someone who has not been through the mill two many times and got spoiled by the way of life I can go into details  but mainly has not got a pinoy boyfreind but says she loves you only to get you to be mr ATM seen a lot of that ,2 the guy who just wants fun no problem there on holiday why not. 3 you go live there get a nice girl live together and everything is ok but the guy gets restless probably had the girl from cherry 🍒 then starts going back to the bar gets other girls the partner finds out this is where things can go very wrong if you make a Filipino loos face it can turn very ugly better to brake up without a third party one guy on 6th street had his head removed from his body by a pinoy over this sort of thing a daddy in a bar drive by shooting  but hay ho it's not all like that get a girl who really loves you and you cannot go wrong . Cheers 

Welcome John.

Not all of us fit into the 3 categories you mention though, John.  There are some of us who met a Filipina outside the Philippines and decided to come here for many reasons, including financial.  

Regardless, certainly those who are in category 1 and 3 will have more problems than Mr 2! 

[Johnkalbo]

Yes I should have put more of a explanation on I have a wonderful filopino wife here now in the uk but we met in Angeles we have a daughter not genetically mine but I am dad that means everything and I agree we all do not fall into the three I mentioned maybe I should have put 5 anyway cheers my friend hope you are as happy as me 

[Jollygoodfellow]

21 hours ago, Johnkalbo said:

then starts going back to the bar gets other girls the partner finds out this is where things can go very wrong

I have to laugh. "The bar." Yes some do that and some fall in love with a bargirl but that is fine if one thinks thats the only way to meet a girl but on the other hand I think it's a very narrow minded approach to finding what this country has to offer. 

[Johnkalbo]

Yup I was there for six years I met my wife in Clark and I have friends who are also marred and happy this is about not exploiting unfortunate the only way for some girls to make money is the bar and there a gain it's only business as I was informed but it's also a way to meet foreign with the chance of a better life there is good and bad in all things   Cheers 

[Dave Hounddriver]

6 hours ago, Johnkalbo said:

the only way for some girls to make money is the bar and there a gain it's only business as I was informed but it's also a way to meet foreign with the chance of a better life there is good and bad in all things

You've been listening to their stories   They teach each other what to say, you know.