Reationships and friendships

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Whereas I would say that being a gossip isn't in itself a showstopper trait in a female partner, being used and taken advantage of in the pre-marital phase should send the guy running.  DNA tests are becoming quite inexpensive now, so finding out if he's the father of the child should be pretty easy.  And if he's not the father, and she's been leading him on all along, he should head for the hills and leave this woman to her own demise.  You're not going to sway him if he's blindly in love.  That's why they coined the phrase, "blindly in love."  Don't try to convince him she's bad for him, as he'll only resent you for it.  Unfortunately, the sad truth will probably dawn on him in two or three years.