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On 11/17/2019 at 5:42 PM, Viking said:

My wife is very jealous too but she dont go to extremes like some do.

I wonder if some of you guys have any female pinay friends that your wifes/gfs accept?

I have several, but it is hard to have a normal friendship with them because of the jealousy from my wife. 

What is your experience from things like this?

My wife will not even have her friends over to the house for fear that they will hook up with me. 

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Perhaps.         After 14or 15 years, I often get asked that, but its posed with a smile. As usual, I confirm my fidelity and lack of interest in any other woman..... then I run through the ratio

Perhaps she just wants you to move on.

I would have thought that would apply to me, I'm 72. She's 66, but it seems not. I am not allowed out on my own. If she has to go away for any reason one of the daughters has to stay here, in case the

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13 hours ago, Viking said:

I understand how you feel but to me it would be annoying, especially if I don´t have anything to hide. By doing this she basically saying that she don´t trust you! Try to explain to her that a good relationship is based on trust and if she don´t want to understand that, ask to have the PIN code to her phone, and check it up on a regular basis so she can see what you are doing.

Maybe it´s just me who are sensitive about things like this, but I would really dislike if my partner didn´t trusted me :Mad:

No its not just you, hard to believe how ever true, even I have a PIN she is still able to open fone  I have given up trying to work out how.....Maybe Viking can be the one to explain to my SO as I sure are unable.

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From my experience they bring jealousy to a whole new level than what I'm used to or prepared to put up with.

From three partners I've had the usual banning from socialising with her friends, accused of flirting with any female within 100m and regularly having my phone messages read from a distance.  The big issue is they don't read the full message, just enough to create insane jealousy. 

These aren't run of the mill province girls either.  They were all stunning with a good education. 

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6 hours ago, RBM said:

No its not just you, hard to believe how ever true, even I have a PIN she is still able to open fone  I have given up trying to work out how.....Maybe Viking can be the one to explain to my SO as I sure are unable.

I am not sure I can make your SO understand, hahaha, but I made it very clear to my woman that I will not tolerate that kind of behaviour and she also know the consequences would be that I walk away, ALONE. It´s important she understand it´s not just talk and that you will actually do it. Make it clear who is the "boss" but remember to be a good boss :wink:. I don´t know how long you been together, soo my advices can be a little late for you since these things should be made clear from the start. If you are too deep in it, you just hade 2 options, put up with it or move on. The choice is yours :tiphat: 

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2 hours ago, Viking said:

 Make it clear who is the "boss" but remember to be a good boss :wink:.

We all know who the Boss REALLY is in relationships - here, there and everywhere! 

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28 minutes ago, hk blues said:

We all know who the Boss REALLY is in relationships - here, there and everywhere! 

This is what most people say, but I don´t agree. I am for sure the "boss" in our relationship and that´s how we both want it to be.

I often find that the women want the men to be in charge, but it´s not popular to say in the western feminized world today. 

Many men AND women actually prefer the old traditional roles, nothing wrong with that as long as we treat each other with the respect and love that we deserve. It´s just that we are good at different things.

I think this is a much smaller problem in Philippines than in Europé. From what I seen, many pinays take good pride in being a WOMAN :thumbsup: 

Remember that if you want to live with an angel, you have to create a heaven, because angels don´t live elsewhere! 

 

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After reading a few more threads on here it amazes me that Ems will introduce me to her friends and my and her phones are just left anywhere for the other to look at, we share pictures too.

Now I shall add a  little bit to this, I am wary and maybe a little jealous of Ems when she has comments from so called Male friends on her phone from pictures I have taken or could it be feeling a little insecure after so many marriages.

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2 hours ago, Viking said:

This is what most people say, but I don´t agree. I am for sure the "boss" in our relationship and that´s how we both want it to be.

I often find that the women want the men to be in charge, but it´s not popular to say in the western feminized world today. 

Many men AND women actually prefer the old traditional roles, nothing wrong with that as long as we treat each other with the respect and love that we deserve. It´s just that we are good at different things.

I think this is a much smaller problem in Philippines than in Europé. From what I seen, many pinays take good pride in being a WOMAN :thumbsup: 

Remember that if you want to live with an angel, you have to create a heaven, because angels don´t live elsewhere! 

 

Yeah, no kidding.   It sounds like a lot of guys (on lots of sites) married Western women. My wife and I mostly have a partnership, but I certainly own the controlling stock ha ha.  I take her feelings and concerns under advisement, but the decisions ultimately are mine. I would not have it any other way - and neither would she.

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I've noticed that my gf , flirts with me when her friends are with us ,especially the single ones 

The only outburst of jealousy I have experienced was when I told her that I had been out to mindanao before I met her  to meet a girl , she went nuts lol

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5 hours ago, bastonjock said:

I've noticed that my gf , flirts with me when her friends are with us ,especially the single ones 

The only outburst of jealousy I have experienced was when I told her that I had been out to mindanao before I met her  to meet a girl , she went nuts lol

So when she learned she wasn't the first how did that conversation go for you? :popcorn::9436:

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