How To Make Your Filipina Wives Happy?

[Julia]

16 Little Things To Keep Your Woman Happy So She Doesn't Have To Ask

Posted: Sunday, June 08, 2008

by David Wygant

So you're in a relationship and your woman starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."

It's not the big things that make women happy, it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful to them. Women are really simple. They don't need lavish gifts they need to know you're thinking about them.

Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" your woman really wants:

1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
   
   
2. Make her dinner one night instead of having her make you dinner. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
   
   
3. Open the bottle of wine instead of sitting there on the couch waiting for her to open it. Get up and open it yourself.
   
   
4. Light the candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the glaring lights of the television and other things.
   
   
5. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."
   
   
6. Send a free e-card in the middle of the day . . . something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
   
   
7. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
   
   
8. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
   
   
9. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner instead of her being your live-in maid.
   
   
10. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet Clean it up! Clean up. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
    
    
11. If you work out together, offer to train her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
    
    
12. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
    
    
13. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage . . . do it!
    
    
14. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.
    
    
15. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
    
    
16. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you."
    

It's very simple to keep women satisfied. It's not about what you give them financially or what gifts you give them. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guys who make the biggest mistake are the ones who ignore their woman then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all". - D.W.

An article which I find very interesting and maybe some husbands might try doing those little things to their wives.

Edited November 14, 2012 by Julia

[tiger31]

er i thought this was comin from a woman until i saw the author a mr d w ? any my g f said she,s very happy with our relationship and would,nt change a thing so why fix it if it aint broke lol.

[Fred & Mimi]

Didn't see any mention of retail therapy...works for my GF. Most of what I saw would be classed as OA by her lol thats he say....

Mimi says,

Retail therapy is good but just dont take her to the big malls cause maybe at the end of the day you will be the one need an advice how to stop her doing that retail therapy ....

Just be romantic a little bit make some effort she will apprciate it as i do ..

guys dont need to work so hard just be faithful to us and we will be loyal to you

Edited November 14, 2012 by Kuya Fred

[Julia]

Didn't see any mention of retail therapy...works for my GF

forgive me Mimi, what is retail therapy really? never heard of this until today :rolleyes:

Edited November 14, 2012 by Julia

[Julia]

Just be romantic a little bit make some effort she will apprciate it as i do .. guys dont need to work so hard just be faithful to us and we will be loyal to you Edited by Kuya Fred, 47 minutes ago.

:th_goodidea: Edited November 14, 2012 by Julia

[Dave Hounddriver]

For a lot of those, just get her a couple of helpers to take care of all that stuff. Some of them like the one I quote here would start a war. Surprise going out is not her thing. In fact it illustrates to me that each person, male or female, is an individual and there is no 'one size fits all' set of instructions. (Just try doing the first item on a girl that does not like having her feet touched and you will see what I mean. Yes I've met a few.)

Surprise her by making plans. Tell her "We're going out tonight honey.

[samatm]

This list obviously wasn't written with the Filipina wife in mind.

If ya wanna keep her happy you should.

1. compliment her on the nice Bagagoong and salty green mango salad she serves

2. Without prodding ask her to have cousins Ding Dong , jong jong, Bing Bing and their family Join you at the Beach resort with a karioke machine

3. Insist she get the best Smart phone --diamond studed bling cover a must.

4. Lovingly insist on watching the Korean Telenovela with her instead of football

5 Lovingly insist on watching bizarre GMA Telenovelas with her instead of football

6 Ditto Ditto...Wow Wow Wee Dito

7. Offer to clean the Tapo bucket handle

8. Make a date to the Cinema -- with smuggled in foods and drinks (with rice of course)

9. Speaking of rice. Order Rice for her even when eating pizza and spaghetti.

10. Get her own customized ATM card in pink and keep the sucker topped up! ( of course this is universal,but Filipinas are swept of guard with customized aspect )

[earthdome]

This list obviously wasn't written with the Filipina wife in mind.

If ya wanna keep her happy you should.

1. compliment her on the nice Bagagoong and salty green mango salad she serves

2. Without prodding ask her to have cousins Ding Dong , jong jong, Bing Bing and their family Join you at the Beach resort with a karioke machine

3. Insist she get the best Smart phone --diamond studed bling cover a must.

4. Lovingly insist on watching the Korean Telenovela with her instead of football

5 Lovingly insist on watching bizarre GMA Telenovelas with her instead of football

6 Ditto Ditto...Wow Wow Wee Dito

7. Offer to clean the Tapo bucket handle

8. Make a date to the Cinema -- with smuggled in foods and drinks (with rice of course)

9. Speaking of rice. Order Rice for her even when eating pizza and spaghetti.

10. Get her own customized ATM card in pink and keep the sucker topped up! ( of course this is universal,but Filipinas are swept of guard with customized aspect )

I don't have a filipina wife yet, just a girlfriend... but I can already relate to many of these. :)

[Jake]

Didn't see any mention of retail therapy...works for my GF

forgive me Mimi, what is retail therapy really? never heard of this until today :rolleyes:

When the going is tough, the tough goes shopping......he, he. Do you have a separate room to store

all her collections of handbags, shoes, towels, etc, etc??

[Call me bubba]

My X partner must be happy, as she has been gone 12 months now and has no intention of returning.

what I did to make her so happy, was when it wastime for the birth of 2nd child ,she needed a C-section

i advised her that she should go to the MANILA BABY FACTORY HOSPITAL as

1. i didnt have the 30k plus for the "operation"

2 that since the government encourges the women to give birth (meaning that their is no true support for family plannning)

let them pay , as she already has philhealth,

well after about 14months , she left and is still gone, :thumbsup: yes my child misses her mother but,, ..(comment not posted)

so whatever I did must made her happy, as she is not here nor is she working .

Now I dont have too support a a person (word not allowed on forum) that doesnt care or wish to work.

(may I note she has a 2 yr nursing degree)