Gonna play house for a few days.

[Snowy79]

8 minutes ago, Mike J said:

Does who is in the running for Miss Universe count as world news? 

Or the latest bit of chismos?  Joking aside my partner and I just had a friend stay with us for 5 days.  I've known her a few years but only remotely. She was always bubbly and very intelligent, fully qualified teacher and ticked most of the boxes for what I'd class as a decent partner, within two days of her being here and just wanting to sit on her butt and play on her phone the hairs on my neck were begining to stick up, never once getting off her butt to help out cooking or around the apartment.

I eventually kicked her butt and told her we are going for a walk and she is coming, her face was a picture, we walked the beach at snails pace for about 2km as I could see she wasn't happy.  When we got back to the apartment she fell asleep instantly on the sofa. The next day she wanted to stay in but at night time I forced her to go to main beach for the sunset and I promised to stop within 50m of the beach. As the sun was going down I suggested walking to Willy's rock about 200m away but she said it was too far.  The rest of her stay followed the same routine, even offers to give her guided tours to the non tourist areas were met with no thanks. 

The icing on the cake was she had friends on the island on holiday that she met up with. I told her we could all meet at a certain bar at 7pm on the button to get a seat as there's live music and seats are had to come by.  I must have confirmed it 5 times during the day. I got there 6:55pm and secured 7 seats, 7:00pm came then 7:20pm and no sign, not even reading my messages.  I sent one final message telling her to get her butt here or I'm giving the seats away which she read and called me.  She then came out with the beauty that they might come along but they were going to order food where they are which was about 800m away.  I pointed out I only went there to meet them out of courtesy and will be well pissed off if they don't turn up. She greed to come along as soon as they could sand at about 8pm they reluctantly arrived then proceeded to get their phones out and surf all night. 

Needless to say I haven't heard from her since she left three weeks ago after I debriefed her. The scary thing is she admitted to my partner she's chatting to a few foreigners hoping to find a partner, I feel sorry for whoever draws the short straw as online she is bubbly and very chatty. In real life she's like watching paint dry.

[Jollygoodfellow]

2 hours ago, Snowy79 said:

eventually kicked her butt and told her we are going for a walk and she is coming,

l can only imagine what she thinks of you 

[hk blues]

9 hours ago, Snowy79 said:

A few days away from anything exciting and trying to hold an indepth conversation on anything that's going on in the modern World will give you an idea what's down the road when the honeymoon period is over. 

That's exactly what I love about the place! 

[BrettGC]

Just now, hk blues said:

That's exactly what I love about the place! 

I'm with you on this one!

[sanagimo]

On 8/10/2022 at 2:06 PM, Jake said:

Venturing out in the boondocks will be an eye opener.  Be prepare to be involve in a drinking session and eating mystery meat among all her uncles, cousins and probably her father.  Often times, you will be judged in how you accept anything out of your comfort zone.  

Best of luck to you, Sanagimo.  

been there and dont mind. the simple food is great

[sanagimo]

1 minute ago, sanagimo said:

been there and dont mind. the simple food is great

 

[sanagimo]

On 8/10/2022 at 11:21 AM, Freebie said:

I think whether you like it or not, you will always be watched, always seen and for sure always judged.You are new to them for for sure there will be lots of watching. You maybe cant help trying to impress because they expect it and will allow it.

Maybe take the girl away from there.. take her on a trip...when you are with a girl 24 /7 then you quickly learn the bits you like the bits that irritate  etc etc. You will lhave a better idea how she is with you alone. With family around shes always going to be bit restricted in what she doe , says adn how she acts. Maybe shes wild but you wont know around her family.

been taking her away for a few days every 2 at the brgy

[GeoffH]

15 hours ago, sanagimo said:

 

 

I love grilled fish cooked over coals... it's yummy!

[Freebie]

On 8/11/2022 at 1:07 PM, Snowy79 said:

I eventually kicked her butt and told her we are going for a walk and she is coming, her face was a picture, we walked the beach at snails pace for about 2km as I could see she wasn't happy.  When we got back to the apartment she fell asleep instantly on the sofa. The next day she wanted to stay in but at night time I forced her to go to main beach for the sunset and I promised to stop within 50m of the beach. As the sun was going down I suggested walking to Willy's rock about 200m away but she said it was too far.

Had one of those super lazy ones  a couple years back. We would get to my condo whereupon after her long distant and hazardous journey in a taxi from Antipolo she would fall asleep as soon as seeing the bed. Thereafter it being a weekend night, Id suggest we go out

Given that Greenbelt is about 300 metres I would shake my head in amazement when she moaned/whinged " its soo far, cant we take a cab"  Had an equal whinge on the long treacherous walk home too. I think she lasted 2 weekends.

The last one being where she spent 4 hours non stop on her phone. After that she took the long hazardous journey back never to return. Shes robably still playing with her phone.Takes more than good looks to make yourself interesting honey. 

Take yours for a walk Sanagimo and see how she reacts.

[Snowy79]

5 hours ago, Freebie said:

Had one of those super lazy ones  a couple years back. We would get to my condo whereupon after her long distant and hazardous journey in a taxi from Antipolo she would fall asleep as soon as seeing the bed. Thereafter it being a weekend night, Id suggest we go out

Given that Greenbelt is about 300 metres I would shake my head in amazement when she moaned/whinged " its soo far, cant we take a cab"  Had an equal whinge on the long treacherous walk home too. I think she lasted 2 weekends.

The last one being where she spent 4 hours non stop on her phone. After that she took the long hazardous journey back never to return. Shes robably still playing with her phone.Takes more than good looks to make yourself interesting honey. 

Take yours for a walk Sanagimo and see how she reacts.

I judge my partner on what type of Mother ( not that I want a kid specifically ) she would be and her family. 

I've had three intelligent partners, two once I got to know would make lousy parents, one never had any kids but was a bit of a Prima Donna, manager of a bank and wanted waited on by others, another had a son who was farmed off to the family. The final one was a fantastic Mother and very hard working, stunning to look at and very active with a good sense of humour but would argue the grass was blue and had a serious insecurity complex, jealous of everything so she had to go. 

My current one never graduated school but she started work early and funded her sisters and brothers education as the family realised they had talent. Never met a more balanced person and it turns out she is very smart just not qualified, she's like me and has to go out daily regardless of the weather or she gets cabin fever, tampo lasts a few seconds before she opens up and she has a great family, ask for nothing. Loves cooking, doing the washing by hand and doesn't drink and is just as blunt as me when someone is trying to gain my confidence before trying to scam me.  I certainly don't have a boring day with her. 

Edited August 13, 2022 by Snowy79