Against The Grain

[brock]

Well I am 30 years older than my wife, and I dont feel like a pedo, A pedo goes with children, my wife is 29 and the mother of my 2 children.Regards Brock.

[MikeB]

so I to am 1 of those who thinks bad thoughts of these old geezers walking around the malls with their trophies & I found little in common with anyone I tryied to date unless they are in their 30's & then feel some common ground coz it is 20 or 30 years behind the times here except for that crappy rap music which will rot their brains for certain.

Spending too much time in malls is dangerous. They exist in a parallel dimension and have the potential to warp your perception of reality and make you impotent.

[Jollygoodfellow]

so I to am 1 of those who thinks bad thoughts of these old geezers walking around the malls with their trophies & I found little in common with anyone I tryied to date unless they are in their 30's & then feel some common ground coz it is 20 or 30 years behind the times here except for that crappy rap music which will rot their brains for certain.

Spending too much time in malls is dangerous. They exist in a parallel dimension and have the potential to warp your perception of reality and make you impotent.

[Mr Lee]

when seeing an old out of shape geezer with a young fit girl 40 or 50 years younger I often thought to myself that he must be a pedo inside trying hard to hide his sickness coz how can a girl that young have anything in common so I to am 1 of those who thinks bad thoughts of these old geezers walking around the malls with their trophies & I found little in common with anyone I tryied to date unless they are in their 30's & then feel some common ground coz it is 20 or 30 years behind the times here except for that crappy rap music which will rot their brains for certain. I wish all the pedos would go home coz they give us all a bad name & reputation. sorry if I offend some of you old farts but I am an old fart too & I have nothing in common with a girl 40 years younger then me except maybe sex & that would only make me a pedo to

Let me try to dissect your post before it brings on any posts by people who might take offense at it since many of us are married to younger ladies.I see Traveler said 40 or 50 years younger, so I am just guessing, but I feel that he is talking about guys in the 60s to 70s who are with girls 20 year old or less, and I too at times have found myself wondering what a guy that much older can possibly have in common with a girl that much younger, but on the times when I see both partners seeming to be totally happy and apparently in love, then I, like ekimswish say more power to them, and since they both seem to be getting something out of the relationship, then so be it and IMO it is not for me to judge them.   I believe we all have to learn to live our own lives, so where do we draw the line with who is too young and who is old enough, I guess the law and our own judgment does that for us. :thumbsup: 

[Tom in Texas]

...a young fit girl 40 or 50 years younger... must be a pedo... trying hard to hide his sickness... bad thoughts... wish all the pedos would go home... nothing in common... except maybe sex & that would only make me a pedo to

Thank you, Dr. Freud,..... but dost thou protest too much?? As you are the un-official arbiter of all things pedophilic... please give me some guidance --I am 58. What is the minimum age for a female that I may marry without your "bad thoughts" branding me as a "pedo."I anxiously await your ruling.Thank you,Tom in Texas

[Inspector]

...a young fit girl 40 or 50 years younger... must be a pedo... trying hard to hide his sickness... bad thoughts... wish all the pedos would go home... nothing in common... except maybe sex & that would only make me a pedo to

Thank you, Dr. Freud,..... but dost thou protest too much?? As you are the un-official arbiter of all things pedophilic... please give me some guidance --I am 58. What is the minimum age for a female that I may marry without your "bad thoughts" branding me as a "pedo."I anxiously await your ruling.Thank you,Tom in Texas

Hahah...reminds me of that Seinfeld episode where Jerry and George are at the President of NBC's house for their show pilot, and his 15 year old daughter comes home wearing a low cut dress and her boob cleavage showing. She comes over to them and leans down with a clear view of her 15 year old cleavage, not knowing that the President is now out of the other room watching as George stares at her boobs...asks George..."you get a nice view?" Hahaha...then explaining later to Elaine, cleavage does not have an age limit, it's impossible to look away. Hey, my wrists are too weak to be in missionary position for the amount of time for a middle aged american woman to peak orgasm (3-4 hours)....:thumbsup:

[Travis]

yes Lee that is what I meant a guy 60 or 70 with a 20 year old girl. Lee I have seen you call some girls here your daughters so it is my opinion you think of them as daughters while these guys think of young girls as sex partners that is the difference I am trying to say here & to me there is little these old guys can have in common with those young girls but their desire for sex & 70 goes into 20 a lot less times then someone closer to their own age

...a young fit girl 40 or 50 years younger... must be a pedo... trying hard to hide his sickness... bad thoughts... wish all the pedos would go home... nothing in common... except maybe sex & that would only make me a pedo to

Thank you, Dr. Freud,..... but dost thou protest too much?? As you are the un-official arbiter of all things pedophilic... please give me some guidance --I am 58. What is the minimum age for a female that I may marry without your "bad thoughts" branding me as a "pedo."I anxiously await your ruling.Thank you,Tom in Texas

:lol: well sir I am no doctor & I am no lawyer either & it is the middle of the night here so I may not even be thinking too swiftly so I believe only you can answer that but if you went into the process looking for a young girl then you have to examine your reasons for doing that but if you went looking for a wife & happened upon a young girl that ended up your wife then in my mind you would not be a pedo. it is what you sought & why you sought it that makes me think these guys who are old enough to be with their grandaughers are pedos so if the first thing they thought about when they saw the girl was boy I would like to get her into bed then to me they are pedos trying to be legal so they go with girls who look like kids but are aboove the legal age & the malls here are full of them :23_11_62[1]: :17403:

[roy2cebu]

Seems someone is judgemental....elder men are pedos, bar girls are all whores.Was there talk elsewhere of leaving the Philippines..........................

[MikeB]

:lol: well sir I am no doctor & I am no lawyer either & it is the middle of the night here so I may not even be thinking too swiftly so I believe only you can answer that but if you went into the process looking for a young girl then you have to examine your reasons for doing that but if you went looking for a wife & happened upon a young girl that ended up your wife then in my mind you would not be a pedo. it is what you sought & why you sought it that makes me think these guys who are old enough to be with their grandaughers are pedos so if the first thing they thought about when they saw the girl was boy I would like to get her into bed then to me they are pedos trying to be legal so they go with girls who look like kids but are aboove the legal age & the malls here are full of them :23_11_62[1]: :17403:

And I am no psychiatrist so I'll withhold comment on your (and other's) preoccupation about "sexpats" and "pedos" but I think the interesting and important (to me) message of the OP (ekimswish) has gone by the wayside i.e., that his initial prejudice and distaste about an "age inappropriate" relationship gave way to an understanding that these 2 people (of legal age) genuinely cared about and loved each other and were happy together and it didn't matter in the least what he or anyone thought about it. One of the best things I've read here or elsewhere.

[Travis]

sorry MikeB I am the 1 who took it off topic so this will be my last post on the subject & yes roy2cebu I am planning on leaving coz it makes me sick seeing most of these foolish old men who are making the viagra street dealers rich while only fooling themselves into believing that the young girls they are with are with them for anything other then their money. It does warm my heart when I see a truely happy young girl with an older man but that is rare & I still wonder other than having a trophy girlfriend & sex what else could they have in common :23_11_62[1]: