MikeB Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 don't be too fast to rule out a bar girl. Lots of these girls hate what they do; they do it to keep their family from starving. True they can become jaded in a hurry Heard that many times and used to believe it. Then I noticed how many of them had much nicer phones then me. When a few told me they never took jeepneys, only taxis I stopped believing it. I guess I'm jaded, I used to believe a lot of things. Good for tips though. 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hey Steve Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 Finding that special someone on line vs boots on the ground..hmm.. I have heard many here that have met their special lady through mutual friends. chance meetings, developing friendships over time, and similar ways. As for myself, I have reg 9-5 job, whereas, it's impossible to be in the Phl for extended periods of time to get to meet a filipina face to face..so I took several short (3 weeks at a time) trips there. Each person has their own level of flexibility in how they can spend that time prior to getting their SS (or pension), with regard to how they go about forming their own LTR. I was a pure internet searcher as my only choice and concluded that all were to some degree financially motivated to put themselves out there to meet a "foreigner". And really..Why not? To me it was a matter of determining over time, how I, as a potential partner fit into the equation (love) and it all worked out just fine in the end. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Popular Post Papa Carl Posted August 23, 2014 Popular Post Posted August 23, 2014 Don't judge a book by it's cover, or by where you found it! or the condition it was in when you found it! If it is a good book, then simply be glad that you found it at all! Some of my best friends were found, or they found me, in the most unlikely of places! Some great and very sound advice here, I tend to relate better to people who are open minded. (I guess in that respect..., I am "old fashioned")? No offense intended in regards to comparing a book with a person, I know they are not the same, but both should be valued no matter where you "find or meet" them. Papa Carl 10 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cebu rocks Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 I'd have agree with Methersgate - don't be too fast to rule out a bar girl. Lots of these girls hate what they do; they do it to keep their family from starving. True they can become jaded in a hurry, but if I am to be honest with myself the simple truth is I have likely had more sexual partners than most of them. I spent about 10 years on a bender between losing one wife and finding the Mrs. A bar girl may simply be much more financial transparent than many others that could have a hidden agenda. If I hadn't been such an ass when I was younger I went though a lot that would have been keepers. Worst advice ever Stay far away from Bar Girls 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Methersgate Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 (edited) The term "bar girl" covers a very wide spectrum. My wider point is that a girl from a very sheltered background may very well turn into something quite different over time - and I will prefer a woman to a girl, every time. Edited August 23, 2014 by Methersgate 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cebu rocks Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 the term bar girl is not wide its a girl who works in a bar and is pay for play . This does not have a age . These girls sit around talking about scams and teaching each other every way to do them hooking up with a bar girl is a recipe for heart break Of every BG romance I would bet 1 of 100 last more than a year or until the money drys up . These girls have a different way of looking at life and If you think you can change them your nuts . Its the I,m going to save this one mentality that sinks most guys . 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Methersgate Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 the term bar girl is not wide its a girl who works in a bar and is pay for play . This does not have a age . These girls sit around talking about scams and teaching each other every way to do them hooking up with a bar girl is a recipe for heart break Of every BG romance I would bet 1 of 100 last more than a year or until the money drys up . These girls have a different way of looking at life and If you think you can change them your nuts . Its the I,m going to save this one mentality that sinks most guys . Please accept a Gold Star for Heroic Generalisation of the Week. 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Negrito Posted August 23, 2014 Author Posted August 23, 2014 (edited) Spending significant time with her family will tell you a great deal about the filipina and her family. I just chose a sentence that kind of struck me but your whole post reminds me of my late wife here in Mexico and her family. I love them dearly and wish she was still here and that they were still in my life. :23_11_62[1]: Also what is OFW? I spent about 10 years on a bender between losing one wife and finding the Mrs. Do you mean that you lost her as in she passed away or a divorce? Edited August 23, 2014 by El Negrito 4 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
El Negrito Posted August 23, 2014 Author Posted August 23, 2014 (edited) Duplicate post. Please delete Edited August 23, 2014 by El Negrito Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Methersgate Posted August 23, 2014 Posted August 23, 2014 Also what is OFW? Overseas Filipino (Filipina) Worker Also sometimes OCW - Overseas Contract Worker. There are probably more women than men working overseas 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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