Old School Vs Next Generation

[RussellRoefs]

I am an heretic. I have never been interested in a church going virgin. Give me a woman who has been road tested. It seems to me that girls are much like boys and the wild oats are going to get sown sooner or later. I will always go for a grown up woman who has tried it and who knows that the grass is not greener on the other side.

 

For that reason, I would not rule out bar girls.  The practical downside to a bar girl is not her "moral character" - which may or may not be OK - it is the additional expense, because she almost certainly has a kid by some no-good Filipino babyfather, which is why she is in the bar in the first place, and if you do fall for her you will have to get her right away from there - and I mean a hundred miles physical distance at least - and support her and the kid(s)

Hi, Guys, I guess I'm one of the lucky stories. I went online to "Filipino.Com" three years ago. when I met Maileine, I first wrote back, "I was not interested" But believe me I was very interested in this beautiful 29 yr. old. She wrote telling me why are profiles were the same, even with the age difference. Well, it taught us over a year to get her here in the US and we were married 18 months ago. In Dec of 2013 our beautiful daughter was born. We just sold me business and waitting on the sale of our home. We plan on moving to Bohol by Oct.

 

I was in the Philippines while in the service (Vietnam) and remembered the warmth of the people back then. So choosing to marry and move there was easy for me. All I can say to many thinking of this kind of move, is Take Your Time. What you have heard about being loyal to your wife is true. But once again guys, Why wouldn't you want to, if she is every mans dream. I love my wife so much and have never been treated like this before in all my 71 years, So have fun and enjoy your Expats life. 

[El Negrito]

Re: lost her - died in car accident one year after marriage.

 

Yes sorry I forgot you had told me that before.

[El Negrito]

So sorry to read that. Must be awful.

 

Nothing worse than losing a spouse. I have been divorced from one wife and had another pass away, the latter was and still is way worse.

[El Negrito]

"Good" girls?   What does "good girls" mean?

 

For me I don't think about a person's past, everyone has a past. By good girl i mean what kind of person are they now? I think of avoiding the scammers and players. Hope I didn't offend anyone by using the term.

[Coffeehound]

Re: good girls

I have a niece who is a single mom. 8 years ago she was raped on her why to school. She was invited to leave school, as "good" Catholic girls don't fornicate outside on marriage. Boom. There goes her education, employment prospects, and potential to find a marriageable young man. If not for our strong family support, what kind of life would this lovely young lady and child have had?

Many if not most of the pay for play girls may well be damaged goods, but I don't feel I'm in a position to judge them.

[Classic Dry]

What does "good girls" mean?

 

My own definition of "good girl" is one who is thoughtful, kind, considerate, loving, generous, loyal, tender,

sweet, calm, etc.

( Not in any particular order )

 

If you can find such a girl/woman " wherever " Grab her, because her history counts for nothing.

Edited August 24, 2014 by Classic Dry

[tweetie]

All girls are good...depends on who is looking at her :)

[Jake]

All girls are good...depends on who is looking at her :)

Triple LIKE Tweetie!  You're just as nasty (in a good way) as your friend, Miss Julia.  From a man's point

of view (literally), it often times depends on what he's looking at.....he, he.

 

Respectfully -- Kuya Jake

[Coffeehound]

Well I'm about to get on the plane for Cavite. Boys are back in college in the morning, so me and wife are going to take advantage of the chance to visit for about a week. Maybe someone can clue me in on how to start a topic, and I'll post trip report/observations when I get back...

[i am bob]

Well I'm about to get on the plane for Cavite. Boys are back in college in the morning, so me and wife are going to take advantage of the chance to visit for about a week. Maybe someone can clue me in on how to start a topic, and I'll post trip report/observations when I get back...

 

A little off topic but it's a quick answer...

 

go to the main forum page, pick out the most pertinent section to place your post under and (in the top right corner, click on "New Post".  Put a title in, your info below and post.