Why Do Some Loud Mouth Aholes Have To Act That Way

[Travis]

I was out in SM the other day & some big fat white slob who must have been an American by his speech patterns found it necessary to yell at some poor frightened cashier & it made me feel like going over & hitting him with a bat. I later apologized to the cashier for his actions & told her to please not judge us all by the actions of some coz we are not all like that ass hole. the more of those type of guys I see here the more it makes me want to go back home coz the longer I am here the more ass holes I seem to run into & I am afraid I might kill 1 of them 1 day. why do they feel the need to act that way? oh & I later ran into the guy upstairs & he was givng his Filipino girlfriend some more of his loud lip service & treating her roughly & like she was a piece of dirt on the floor. man o man how I wanted him to get near the railing so I could push his fat ass over & see him splat on the floors below. it took me a few days to cool off or had I posted this before then I would not have been so nice about it. I have 1 word for guys like him scum & I hope they die so ok it was more then 1 word

[UZI]

I was out in SM the other day & some big fat white slob who must have been an American by his speech patterns found it necessary to yell at some poor frightened cashier & it made me feel like going over & hitting him with a bat. I later apologized to the cashier for his actions & told her to please not judge us all by the actions of some coz we are not all like that ass hole. the more of those type of guys I see here the more it makes me want to go back home coz the longer I am here the more ass holes I seem to run into & I am afraid I might kill 1 of them 1 day. why do they feel the need to act that way? oh & I later ran into the guy upstairs & he was givng his Filipino girlfriend some more of his loud lip service & treating her roughly & like she was a piece of dirt on the floor. man o man how I wanted him to get near the railing so I could push his fat ass over & see him splat on the floors below. it took me a few days to cool off or had I posted this before then I would not have been so nice about it. I have 1 word for guys like him scum & I hope they die so ok it was more then 1 word

:AddEmoticons04230:Well said. Of course, all the Expats that get shot etc are only the nice ones who didn't do anything to deserve the attack. :as-if:Uzi

[Jake]

I was out in SM the other day & some big fat white slob who must have been an American by his speech patterns found it necessary to yell at some poor frightened cashier & it made me feel like going over & hitting him with a bat. I later apologized to the cashier for his actions & told her to please not judge us all by the actions of some coz we are not all like that ass hole. the more of those type of guys I see here the more it makes me want to go back home coz the longer I am here the more ass holes I seem to run into & I am afraid I might kill 1 of them 1 day. why do they feel the need to act that way? oh & I later ran into the guy upstairs & he was givng his Filipino girlfriend some more of his loud lip service & treating her roughly & like she was a piece of dirt on the floor. man o man how I wanted him to get near the railing so I could push his fat ass over & see him splat on the floors below. it took me a few days to cool off or had I posted this before then I would not have been so nice about it. I have 1 word for guys like him scum & I hope they die so ok it was more then 1 word

Hello my friend, I am proud of you for keeping your cool. More importantly, I am more proud of you by taking the initiative for apologizing to the cashier and putting her at ease. The locals will remember your anger towards "one of your own".  And guess what? They will remember your kindness as well. If I could make a suggestion if that ever happens again, please don't hesitate to summon the manager and have him call security or PNP. Or get security yourself. Explain to them that you are willing to testify against him as a witness. And don't forget to look at him with extreme prejudice by standing your ground. The locals will see that also and will attract other witnesses to come forward. Hang in there Traveler -- Jake Edited May 31, 2013 by Jake

[Jake]

It is well documented that undesirables have been "salvaged", some of them end up floating in Pasig River in Manila. The arrogant expat has his days counted if he continues to verbally or physically abuse the local population. We are basically timid and shy but we are very passionate people. It only takes just one Filipino to set the fire and the "mauling begins" done by innocent people or in extreme cases, a vigilante group. In some provinces, the weapon of choice is the bow and arrow. Hand crafted like a balisong knife (butterfly knife), the bow and arrow is long distance, runs silent and runs deep.

 

Enough said -- Jake

Edited May 31, 2013 by Jake

[Jollygoodfellow]

The reasons for this type of thing in my opinion is that the second class "kano" arrives in the Philippines and becomes rich and powerful suddenly.In his own country he would most likely be put in his place but in the Philippines he sees the small built Filipino as easy picking with his new found fame and wealth.He is now the King in his eyes so belittling the people is easy to him.Jake suggested some cures for these types,myself not being a violent man would prefer the more quick and silent approach to turn the tables in public of these types,here is an example.

[UZI]

The reasons for this type of thing in my opinion is that the second class "kano" arrives in the Philippines and becomes rich and powerful suddenly.In his own country he would most likely be put in his place but in the Philippines he sees the small built Filipino as easy picking with his new found fame and wealth.He is now the King in his eyes so belittling the people is easy to him.Jake suggested some cures for these types,myself not being a violent man would prefer the more quick and silent approach to turn the tables in public of these types,here is an example.

:AddEmoticons04230::buttkick:Kick him to the curb

[Mr Lee]

I was out in SM the other day & some big fat white slob who must have been an American by his speech patterns found it necessary to yell at some poor frightened cashier & it made me feel like going over & hitting him with a bat. I later apologized to the cashier for his actions & told her to please not judge us all by the actions of some coz we are not all like that ass hole. the more of those type of guys I see here the more it makes me want to go back home coz the longer I am here the more ass holes I seem to run into & I am afraid I might kill 1 of them 1 day. why do they feel the need to act that way? oh & I later ran into the guy upstairs & he was givng his Filipino girlfriend some more of his loud lip service & treating her roughly & like she was a piece of dirt on the floor. man o man how I wanted him to get near the railing so I could push his fat ass over & see him splat on the floors below. it took me a few days to cool off or had I posted this before then I would not have been so nice about it. I have 1 word for guys like him scum & I hope they die so ok it was more then 1 word

Easy does it T it sounds like your blood pressure is rising and that is not a good thing. As others have said, it is best to not take the law into your own hands (but I do like the idea of tossing his fat ass over the railing) and to let the locals sort it all out their own way, so calling the manager or security guard is probably the best way, but I understand that this might not always be practical if you are standing in line somewhere behind the offensive person. I am actually surprised that if the guy was shouting, that security or the manager did not intervene but as Jake alluded to, Filipinos are usually non confrontational type people and what Boss Man mentioned is probably the reason guys act like that at times. It seems they have gone from being a nobody in their own country to being wanted by many young attractive ladies while in the Philippines, and IMO most of those ladies would only be with the jerks out of sheer desperation, or they would not put up with the way they are being treated. I guess to them it is sort of like a job where they have to take crap from the boss anyway and maybe better to take crap from one guy than go to work as a bar girl and have to take it from many. The very sad part is that people with such tempers an attitudes will no doubt escalate their behavior until they physically abuse the woman they are with. IMO it takes a very small man (inside and probably below the waist :AddEmoticons04230: ) to man handle people who are much smaller than he is.No matter what the case was, I wish the Philippines would deport all of the users and abusers of locals such as the one you described. It could be called the Take out the Trash Squad.

[Travis]

thank you for the replies. why does the Philippine government allow scum like this guy to reside in their country? I think I saw this whale a while back in the pool at santrap he sort of looks like a beachball or as Lee had once said to me a beachball with a head arms legs & probably no pecker little men with little dicks in a country that gives them a swollen head making them think they are actually men when in reality they are just little boys in a mans body that grew while their brains never did. I would bet that they are the viagra salesmens best customer.

[Jollygoodfellow]

thank you for the replies. why does the Philippine government allow scum like this guy to reside in their country? I think I saw this whale a while back in the pool at santrap he sort of looks like a beachball or as Lee had once said to me a beachball with a head arms legs & probably no pecker little men with little dicks in a country that gives them a swollen head making them think they are actually men when in reality they are just little boys in a mans body that grew while their brains never did. I would bet that they are the viagra salesmens best customer.

Whats with the ridicule of the overweight guys? Are you saying the only ones who are assholes are the fat ones,let me tell you I have known a lot of skinny assholes in my time.Do you judge the Filipina on her looks and weight,might explain why you cant find someone to fill your life? Sometimes I think some people who put down others are just as much the asshole that you are talking about in this thread.Regards: The Fat Boss :AddEmoticons04230:

[Travis]

thank you for the replies. why does the Philippine government allow scum like this guy to reside in their country? I think I saw this whale a while back in the pool at santrap he sort of looks like a beachball or as Lee had once said to me a beachball with a head arms legs & probably no pecker little men with little dicks in a country that gives them a swollen head making them think they are actually men when in reality they are just little boys in a mans body that grew while their brains never did. I would bet that they are the viagra salesmens best customer.

Whats with the ridicule of the overweight guys? Are you saying the only ones who are assholes are the fat ones,let me tell you I have known a lot of skinny assholes in my time.Do you judge the Filipina on her looks and weight,might explain why you cant find someone to fill your life? Sometimes I think some people who put down others are just as much the a**h*le that you are talking about in this thread.Regards: The Fat Boss

whoops I touched on a raw nerve. I have not seen any skinny loud mouthed assholes here but have seen many back home. to me it seems that the guys who cannot control their eating & drinking habits also cannot control their tempers & their mouth grows with their girth so maybe there are also skinny assholes here that I have not run into yet & I do not think all overweight peopel are assholes just from what I see it seems to be that the assholes here are very overweight & also a bunch of drunks. maybe they need to look themselves in the mirror to realize just what they have let themselves become. lack of self control in all areas of their lives is my opinion of them & before you get upset with my drunk remark it is not about drinking it is about those who become mean drunks & do things they might not do when sober well at least not in public