Am I Rationalising Or What !

[Old55]

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Having a single mother as a bride could truly be a happy match. We know of a few couples older guys younger single mother Filipinas who are both very happy.

Edited January 5, 2013 by Old55

[Curley]

:th_thbestpost:

Thank you kind sir. :tiphat:

[Julia]

as young as 25 with a kid, yes, but not with kids

a woman with one child maybe just a victim of some false promises of "love"

but a 25 young woman with more than one kid? well, she maybe a victim of a bad "habit"

follow your heart but trust your instinct, but most importantly consider Stevewool's reply on this topic

good luck to all of those who are searching for the right one...

Edited January 5, 2013 by Julia

[Julia]

By and large the 30 to 40 group don't seem to want me, the reason being, I think, that in 10 or 15 years time when I'm dribbling and peeing my pants, it may be too late for them to start looking around again.

May I just want to add a bit of this group why they seem to be not a good choice? most women who are not married and are already in this age range (the mid-life category) are either already cynical about love or had been through so much pain in life that they find it hard to trust and believe in love again...

20-30 age range is a better group to maybe consider...

Edited January 5, 2013 by Julia

[Dave Hounddriver]

By and large the 30 to 40 group don't seem to want me,

You seem to be in touch with what you need and want in a relationship. Like others, I would say go for it. Well perhaps it is better to say: Go for the one you want with your eyes open and wallet closed, keeping tight rein on both your heart and your dik as both will lead you astray if she turns out to be a manipulator.

As to the part I quoted here, it may be as simple as they can sense that they are not what you really want and they respond to that. In addition, a large part of the attraction from a young lady to an older gentleman is the 'rock star' thing. They are attracted to the image rather than the real person . . until they actually get to know you.

I still say go for it.

[lyno 47]

for every woman out there trying to get hold of your money there is an equal amount of men telling lies and making promises they have no intention of keeping, just to get a lady into bed,another notch on there belt so to speak.use your good judgment and go for it no matter her age, there are many loverly decent ladies with and without kids in the phils who would make wonderfull g/fs or wives good luck on your search :cheersty: lyno

[Classic Dry]

They are attracted to the image rather than the real person . . until they actually get to know you.

Dave, are you suggesting that once they get to know me they wont like me ! ! ! .....I hate you, you bast#&rd

Just kidding. Your post makes a lot of sense.

[Classic Dry]

Perhaps you should seriously look at another group. Say around 25 with a young child that lives with her, find a single Mum who loves her child enough to have the child living with her rather than being "farmed out" to a relative. They know that a single Mums come with baggage and therefore are not so attractive to many men, I believe they could be a better long term bet

I have thought of this before. Seeing it written out like this leads me to think it might be the way to go.

Particularly as I seem to have a slight procreation problem.

[lyno 47]

classic dry dont count out the slightly older ladies they have a lot to offer as well .you know the old aussie saying that there is many a good tune played on an old fiddle cheers mate

[lyno 47]

i should have added that pretty is only window dressing the real beauty comes from with in treat them with love and honesty and you will be repaid 10 fold :thumbsup: