GregZ Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 She is still more mature than I am. We are on the third honeymoon year. Triple LIKE Mr Z! Now it's time to make some babies.....he, he. Joke lang Pare..... :nudie: Everything in good time my man, Jake. We have 3 more years of ME being spoiled and frequent baby making practice. Just praying for my back to hold up. :tiphat: THEN we are ready for a baby. You never want to rush into anything until you have it perfected you know. I'll only be 73 when FIRST little one graduates high school. I've asked for 3 but she is thinking that 1 may be enough. Pray for twins??? 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 To me, age means nothing. It seems that to a lot of others? Yeah, right... I am staying with my sister at the moment (helping her out) and she had often told me that it is only sick people who have relationships where the age difference is more than 3 years... But my relationship with my Special Someone has ended recently also... Mom isn't doing well and is moving herself and Av back to the family homestead in Cagayan - but there her oldest brother rules. No older men and no foreigners... Not a situation I want to put myself into. I'm sorry to hear that Bob. But you took it like a man, willing to acknowledge the hidden issues down the road and decided to cut it clean. Many expats can learn from you, my friend. Respectfully -- Jake PS -- I have plenty of cousins for ya, slightly used but still virgin in the ear.....he, he. 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i am bob Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Thanks, Jake! I figure I'll take my time this time around before I get involved again... Somewhere between the aircraft upon landing and getting a taxi out front... :) 5 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve & Myrlita Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Bob, so sorry to hear what happened. Consider it a sharp preview of your life with her had it went forward. You and the brother would be head butting on a regular basis and if she like many Filipinas, put her family 1st, you will end up the loser. I wish you all the best Bob. Take Care..... 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BrettGC Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 To me, age means nothing. It seems that to a lot of others? Yeah, right... I am staying with my sister at the moment (helping her out) and she had often told me that it is only sick people who have relationships where the age difference is more than 3 years... But my relationship with my Special Someone has ended recently also... Mom isn't doing well and is moving herself and Av back to the family homestead in Cagayan - but there her oldest brother rules. No older men and no foreigners... Not a situation I want to put myself into. Really sorry to hear about this Bob, hope in the long run it's for the best. You take care mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i am bob Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Thanks guys! There is a chance we may get back together but I am leaving it in her hands. As you said, Steve, if she is to put family first, then it is done. I told her no contact until October. If she decided she misses me enough that I rate higher than family, then we will give things a chance. But it will be a trial return and the first time her brother stands before me, it will be to see someone on her way out the door. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Medic Mike Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Thanks guys! There is a chance we may get back together but I am leaving it in her hands. As you said, Steve, if she is to put family first, then it is done. I told her no contact until October. If she decided she misses me enough that I rate higher than family, then we will give things a chance. But it will be a trial return and the first time her brother stands before me, it will be to see someone on her way out the door. If it does not work out, come down to Cebu and hang out with us. :) 3 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i am bob Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Thanks guys! There is a chance we may get back together but I am leaving it in her hands. As you said, Steve, if she is to put family first, then it is done. I told her no contact until October. If she decided she misses me enough that I rate higher than family, then we will give things a chance. But it will be a trial return and the first time her brother stands before me, it will be to see someone on her way out the door. If it does not work out, come down to Cebu and hang out with us. :) I'll be landing in Cebu on November 2nd... At 10pm... Hehe! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jake Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 Thanks guys! There is a chance we may get back together but I am leaving it in her hands. As you said, Steve, if she is to put family first, then it is done. I told her no contact until October. If she decided she misses me enough that I rate higher than family, then we will give things a chance. But it will be a trial return and the first time her brother stands before me, it will be to see someone on her way out the door. If it does not work out, come down to Cebu and hang out with us. :) Hey Bob, If you don't take that invitation from our resident Doc, your very first trip to PI will be a bust. Medic Mike has got the best drugs for STD and supermax Viagra. He could also possibly revive you after an intense roll in the hay.....he, haw. Go for it Tiger! 2 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Thomas Posted August 10, 2014 Posted August 10, 2014 But my relationship with my Special Someone has ended recently also... Mom isn't doing well and is moving herself and Av back to the family homestead in Cagayan - but there her oldest brother rules. No older men and no foreigners... Not a situation I want to put myself into. Sad to hear that. if she is to put family first, then it is done. That ultimatum is more or less impossible for a good Filipina to accept. It need to be extreem bad parents - or an extreem bad selfish Filipina - to make them even concider to chose any of us before her parents, but SOME good Filipinas can find it ok to take husband's side against very bad behaving sibblings/uncles/aunts... (I know of only 2 Filipinas, who find it ok/want to skip contact with very bad behaving sibblings, all want good contact with parents, but most want to help bad behaving sibblings too... An earlier presumtive future wife has 2 very bad behaving sibblings, who made a problem, which worried the family very much. She got angry at ME and skiped me, because I asked if the family had solved the problem with the bad behaving sibblings, "because I asked to often" although it was 5 MONTHS between I got to know it and when I asked!!! :hystery: Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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